Ruben

Feelings of Worthlessness

Many of you know very well the story of Rubén. And many of you also know that a young woman named Rosalina recently became our second patient guest to receive the benefits of staying at La Casa de Rubén. If you are not familiar with these stories please scroll down and read the two previous blog posts and then come back to this one.

One of the things that disabled people often suffer with is boredom and feelings of worthlessness, of having no purpose in life. Imagine how great the struggle was for Rubén while spending 2 1/2 years laying in a bed with nothing to do except to look out a small window, or maybe listen to the radio occasionally.

Much of this changed for him simply by coming to La Casa de Rubén and going to physical therapy 2-3 times per week. As he gained strength, and with the help of the staff, he quickly began to be able to stay in his wheelchair more and more. Now bedtime is the only time he is not in his wheelchair. Some of the time in his wheelchair is spent reading now that he has enough strength and movement to hold down a book and turn the pages.

But even with this the feelings of boredom and worthlessness persist. Thankfully we have a God who cares.

Let me introduce you to a young man named Aguinaldo. Before the idea came to us for La Casa de Rubén we hired Aguinaldo to do some electrical work for us in La Campa. It was easy to get to know and like him because he is such a humble, gentle young man. He also happens to be an excellent electrician.

Shortly after we moved into La Casa de Rubén we needed some electrical work done so Aguinaldo was called upon again. He came and did excellent work. But he also took time to begin building a personal relationship with Rubén. One day Aguinaldo pulled me off to the side and told me that he had an idea that would help Rubén and asked permission to pursue it. Of course, I said yes, go for it!

Because God cares He had touched Aguinaldo’s heart to find something for Rubén to do that fit his interests and could be done taking into account his physical limitations. Yesterday Aguinaldo’s idea became much more clear when he presented a small, basic CNC machine that he built using materials he had in his shop and small electronic boards and processing chips that he purchased.

The machine is connected to and operated by a computer. Currently the machine only has the capability to draw images from the computer onto paper. But even this opens up opportunities for Rubén to be able to spend his time doing something that makes him feel productive. There is great dignity in feeling and being productive.

Yesterday we spent a lot of time talking and dreaming at La Casa de Rubén of the future possibilities there are for Rubén using a computer, this machine, and his creative desires to produce all sorts of things that he can sell to support himself, and perhaps someday, his own family.

Rosalina came to the house with her sewing skills and while she is there she continues to produce beautiful hand stitched cloths of various sizes. These cloths can be used as table cloths or decorative hanging tapestries. They typically serve a more practical purpose here in Honduras as they are often used as tortilla warmers. You’ll be hearing and seeing more about Rosalina’s cloths very soon.

We are so grateful to God for how He works by bringing people together in ways that can’t be predicted. Who knew a contract electrician would be the one God chose to use to open up a whole new world of value and dignity to people like Rubén.

We are also grateful that the Lord has brought you into our lives. Thank you all for your prayers and support of FHD Missions Honduras and La Casa de Rubén. We can’t do this without you.

Finding Rubén

The Mescalio Story

It was a damp, drizzly and cold day in January 2016 when we, Greg and Jean, first visited this small village located slightly more than an hour away from both La Campa and Gracias. A small team from Atlanta, GA had come to spend a week with us to teach on the importance of prayer. The teaching was put into action by visiting families in Mescalio to actually pray with and for them. 

Drizzly morning in Mescalio

Drizzly morning in Mescalio

Arrangements had been made for us to go with Juan, one of the church leaders from neighboring Mataras, who had been doing house visits in Mescalio. The homes are fairly spread out across the mountains and it is difficult terrain. That particular morning it was also a little muddy as we went on foot in the streets and narrow trails, climbing across fences and walking through pastures to visit several homes. As noon approached we were ready to call it a day but Juan had another idea and he wouldn’t take no for an answer. He wanted to visit one more family and the looming storm on the horizon was not bothering him so off we went.

At this last house lived a family who had recently moved to Mescalio and were operating a pulperia, or small convenience store, out of their house. This is one of the many ways they work hard to make ends meet in an isolated village with few opportunities. As we were all talking, the mom, Gloria Marina, shared with us how difficult it had been for them since their move. There were many reasons for this including that there was no evangelical church for them to attend. We prayed with Gloria Marina and her family, we committed to visiting again, and left thinking our visit had been very encouraging to them.

Getting ready to start construction in Mescalio

Getting ready to start construction in Mescalio

In March 2017 a team of builders and nurses from several churches near Louisville, KY came to build the first evangelical church and conduct a medical clinic in Mescalio. It was then that we met Rubén, one of Gloria Marina’s neighbors. Rubén had been shot in October 2016 and was paralyzed from the chest down. When we met him his spirits were low and his overall health was poor. One of our interpreters shared the gospel with Rubén and he accepted Christ as his Savior. Even though Rubén was still physically paralyzed, he was spiritually healed.

Rubén in Mescalio before coming to La Casa de Rubén

Rubén in Mescalio before coming to La Casa de Rubén

In early 2018 Rubén was hospitalized with a high fever due to various infections. His physical condition was grave but his spirit was not. Despite his struggles he always had a beautiful smile and was encouraging to us. We learned from the hospital staff that while Rubén was there he told some of the other patients, if you will come here I will pray with you. He could not visit others bedside but he cared enough to want to pray for them. How awesome is that! Rubén is proof that God can and does use any of us when we are willing to serve Him.

Over time as we visited Rubén we got to know his family. Marlen, Rubén’s now 12 year old sister, had completed 6th grade and was helping care for Rubén. As she would run from Rubén’s bed to get water, a towel, or whatever else was needed we would talk with her. During one of these talks we learned that she wanted to become a nurse so that she could better help her brother and others like him. However, this was an impossible dream for her because there are no educational opportunities beyond 6th grade in Mescalio.

But when Marlen and her brother moved into La Casa de Rubén in April 2019 everything changed. He is now getting the care and physical therapy he needs while she is attending 7th grade in pursuit of her dream to become a nurse. Will she achieve her dream? Through her hard work, favor from God, and our new scholarship program we think she will. But above all we want her to have the opportunity to learn about God and Jesus and grow into the person that He designed her to be.

There is much work to be done in Mescalio and La Casa de Rubén. Will you ask God to show you how He wants you to join in His work in Mescalio? Will you pray for the love and grace of our Lord and Savior Jesus Christ to continue to be shared and received in this community? Will you pray for Rubén, Marlen, and everyone else who comes to stay at La Casa de Rubén? There are many ways to support the work in both of these places. Will you prayerfully consider how God may be calling you to be a part of this work He is doing?

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